The backpack, the Baby Bjorn, the Chariot, lots of gelato, a herculean husband, an almost-three-year-old who loves to walk everywhere, the willingness to nurse and change diapers almost anywhere, kind waiters, many cappucinnos (for mom), and Dora on the iPod for mealtimes. That's how you do it. Will they remember it? Probably not. Will we? Forever.